Jessica

He brought her to our daughter’s birthday party. The same woman he had an affair with. And I said yes. Not because it didn’t hurt… but because healing means choosing peace over pride. This day was never about them — it was about her. And she got the love-filled day she deserved. #SingleMum #CoParentingReality #HealingJourney #NewChapter #strongwomen #singlemumlife #movingonup #survivingandthriving #newbeginnings

Coparenting isn’t always clean or comfortable, especially when betrayal is part of the story. But I’ve learned that boundaries, peace, and putting my daughters first can all exist at the same time. What boundaries do you think are most important? . . #singlemumlife #singlemum #coparenting #lifeafterdivorce #movingonup #newbeginnings #boundariesarehealthy

DIY garden water feature I finally got round to using the solar water fountain I saw everyone using last year. I love how this turned out 🌿 #gardenproject #garden #waterfeature #gardendiy #diyproject #gardentok #gardeninghacks

They say the hardest part isn’t leaving, it’s deciding you deserve better. And let me tell you… the moment I chose me was the moment everything changed. To anyone feeling stuck, just know—your glow-up is waiting on the other side. ✨ . . #singlemumlife #lifeafterdivorce #singlemum #movingonup #newbeginnings #newbuildjourney #newbuildhouse #IndependentWoman #DIY #freshstart

What do you think? This was my first time single handedly building ikea furniture… I can confirm there were a lot of arguments and tears 😂 But I’m really proud of myself and love the finished result. I used four Ikea Havsta units and two shelving units to build this tv media wall. . . #singlemumlife #lifeafterdivorce #movingonup #newbeginnings #IndependentWoman #freshstart #thrivingandsurviving #newbuildjourney #newbuildhouse #DIY #homeorganization

What do you think? Is this a good dupe? Is it worth the price? And most importantly would you buy it? I’m terrible at finding bargain buys but I’m so happy with this one. @B&M Stores

He cheated… so I bought a house. But let me be clear: whether you’re buying, renting, or still dreaming — you’re doing it. Rebuilding your life after heartbreak isn't easy. I started with two little girls, no income of my own, and a whole lot of fear. But I knew one thing for sure: I wasn’t going to wait around to be rescued. I built a business from my kitchen table, post by post, moment by moment, until somehow the life I thought I'd lost started to come back — but better. This house isn’t just bricks and mortar — it's peace, it's healing, it's proof that you can lose everything and still find yourself again. No matter where you live right now, rented or bought, you deserve a life filled with safety, freedom, and joy. And you are allowed to be so damn proud of yourself for every tiny step you're taking to get there. This chapter? It’s yours. And it’s just getting started. . . #singlemumlife #singlemum #coparenting #lifeafterdivorce #movingonup #newbeginnings #HealingJourney #NewChapter #survivingandthriving #lifeafterheartbreak #singlemumjourney #homeownership

The arrival of this table means more than I can explain. In my old house, I felt stuck—trapped in memories I didn’t want anymore. Now, in my new home, every piece I bring in is intentional. It’s part of the life I’m creating, the happiness I’m choosing. 💛 One day, this table will be full of laughter, love, and new traditions. And that’s the beauty of a fresh start. ✨ . . #singlemum #singlemumlife #lifeafterdivorce #FreshStart #singlemumlife #newbeginnings #movingonup #newbeginnings #newbuildjourney #newbuildhouse #newhome #newhomejourney #diningtable

When I started sharing my journey, I did it to heal. But what I didn’t expect was how many people would see themselves in my story. The messages, the voice notes, the tears—you’ve shown me that this isn’t just my experience, it’s ours. I’m sharing this not just for me, but for every woman who has felt broken, betrayed, or like they weren’t enough. If my story can help even one person find their strength, then every word, every video, every raw moment is worth it. We are not alone, and we are stronger than we think. 💖 #singlemumlife #lifeafterdivorce #singlemum #movingonup #newbeginnings #IndependentWoman #freshstart #thrivingandsurviving

"Always live your brightest life" Here is how I made the viral Molly Mae inspired wall art. I am the least artistic person but I thought"maebe" it will be easy... and it was! I'm really happy with how the canvas turned out and I love looking at it everyday and knowing that I made it #mollymae #mollymaecanvas #diywalldecor #diywallart

My first clean in my new home… and wow, I didn’t see this coming! 😱✨ In my old house, no matter how much I cleaned, it never truly felt clean—maybe because of the memories it held. But this? This feels different. A fresh start, a new routine, and a space that finally feels mine. 🏡💛 Single mum life isn’t always easy, but little moments like this remind me how far I’ve come. Have you ever felt a shift like this? . . #cleaningaccount #cleaningmotivation #cleansquad #cleanwithme #singlemum #singlemumlife #lifeafterdivorce #movingonup #newbeginnings #IndependentWoman #freshstart #thrivingandsurviving

He thought I’d struggle… but I’m thriving ✨🏡 Being a single mum, buying my own home, and making it mine has been the most empowering journey. Here’s to fresh starts and new beginnings! 💪 Ps. What do you think of café curtains?? . . #singlemumlife #singlemum #lifeafterdivorce #movingonup #survivingandthriving #newbeginnings #FreshStart #newbuildjourney #newbuildhouse #newhome #newhomejourney

“when are you going to start dating again?” The truth is… I’m still healing (there’s a lot of emotional trauma), still figuring out how to trust after being cheated on and also trying to juggle it all as a single mum. Dating apps for me are a horror show 😅 but also having the time when I barely have enough time for myself. But I am hopeful that I will get my fairytale ending. . . . #singlemumlife #singlemum #lifeafterdivorce #movingonup #newbeginnings #HealingJourney

I personally think I nailed this 😂 Everything has a home and it’s functional. Obsessed 😍 What do you think!? . . #cupboardorganization #homeorganization #homeorganizationhacks #unpackwithme #CleanTok #cleaningtiktok #cleaningmotivation #newhome

Co-parenting isn’t a break… it’s a rollercoaster no one really talks about. I’m learning not to fill that quiet with guilt or overthinking. Instead I’m learning to pour it into myself. It’s not a break, it’s a chance to reset. And when they come home I want them to return to a mum who feels present. If you’re navigating co-parenting too… I see you! Let me know what you struggle with the most ⬇️ . . #singlemumlife #coparentingjourney #realparenting #songleparentsupport #lifeafterdivorce #singlemum #singleparent #singleparenting #empoweredparenting #coparenting #movingonup #brokenhome

I thought I needed him. I thought I couldn’t do it alone. But betrayal has a way of showing you exactly who you don’t need. So I picked up the pieces, built a new life, and saved myself. 💪✨ #StrongerThanEver #SingleMum #FreshStart #singlemumlife #lifeafterdivorce #movingonup #newbeginnings #IndependentWoman #thrivingandsurviving

The night before her 4th birthday, I stayed up creating magic. Just me, a few balloons, and a whole lot of love. Being a single mum isn’t always easy, but moments like this remind me why I keep going. She may not remember the details, but I hope she always remembers how loved she felt. . . #SingleMum #singlemumlife #birthdaysetup #makingmemories

Trust issues? Yeah, I have a few.
But I also have a new bed, fresh sheets, and no shared memories haunting the headboard.
Rebuilding as a single mum means learning new skills, claiming your space, and occasionally swearing at flat-pack furniture.
But let me tell you — this room? It’s all mine.
Soft, strong, and full of fresh starts. . . #singlemumlife #singlemum #coparenting #lifeafterdivorce #movingonup #newbeginnings #HealingJourney #NewChapter #survivingandthriving #strongwomen #FreshStart #newhome #newhomejourney

They say being rich is about money? out for me, this is wealth. A home bought as a single mum, a table I styled for my family, and a heart full of pride. This moment means more than any bank balance ever could. Thank you to @Peppermill Interiors for gifting me the beautiful Guildford 130cm round dining table in Weathered and the Lucca dining chairs in Sand — they've completely transformed the space and made it feel like home. . . #singlemumlife #singlemum #coparenting #lifeafterdivorce #movingonup #newbeginnings #makingmemories #HealingJourney #NewChapter #survivingandthriving #newhome #newhomejourney

But no revenge because I admire the way I grew from the things he put me through whilst he’s EXACTLY where I left him… #singlemumlife #singlemum #coparenting #lifeafterdivorce #movingonup #newbeginnings #HealingJourney #NewChapter #survivingandthriving #strongwomen #FreshStart