Jay Saxe🇨🇦

I ate a pickle to fry your nervous system long enough to land this. Because if you were shaped by an emotionally unstable mom and emotionally absent dad… You're probably still carrying Parts of you that had to grow up too fast, read the room like your life depended on it, and call neglect “independence.” Here are 10 trauma responses I see in clients (and myself, and my wife) every single day: A Part that reads everyone’s mood before you speak, like you’re still waiting for mom’s emotional weather report. A Part that shuts down affection because compliments feel dangerous, manipulative, or like a setup. A Part that can’t receive love without proving your worth first. A Part that’s hypercritical, especially toward yourself, but also the people you actually want closeness with. A Part that can’t relax around emotionally safe people—because your system doesn’t know what “safe” feels like. A Part that overfunctions and overexplains, even when no one’s asking. A Part that feels guilty for resting, for saying no, or for having needs. A Part that’s always scanning for rejection, so it pushes people away before they get the chance. A Part that calls yourself an empath but secretly feels responsible for everyone’s emotions. A Part that still waits for your parents to become the people they never were. None of these are “who you are.” They’re trauma responses. They’re Parts of you that did the best they could. And now they’re exhausted. ⚡ so if you want to change all this then I’m teaching a free workshop: HEALING THE WOUNDS WITHIN: A trauma-informed path to wholeness using IFS therapy *CLICK THE LINK IN BIO TO JOIN* You're not broken. You're protecting. And it’s time to come home to the Self that never left. #M#MentalHealthH#HealingT#TraumaRecoveryE#EmotionalHealingS#SelfAwarenessI#InnerWorkP#PartsWorkI#IFSR#ReparentingH#HealingJourneyC#CPTSDE#EmotionalRegulationS#SelfCompassionG#GenerationalHealingH#HealingIsMessyF#FYPV#ViralT#TherapyTokH#HealingTikTokI#InnerChildHealing